When a student elopes (runs out of class), shuts down, or erupts, their brain has shifted into survival mode (fight, flight, or freeze). In this state, the logical brain ("Reason") is completely offline. Trying to talk through rules, consequences, or logic will not work until their nervous system feels safe and regulated.
Learn how to support students through moments of dysregulation and distress with this practical toolkit from Heartwise Learning. Designed for non-clinical school staff, this quick-start guide includes calming language, sensory tool suggestions, and simple steps for helping students regulate, reconnect, and return to learning. You’ll also find ideas for creating a sensory basket or calm corner, guidance for co-regulation, and clear reminders about when to seek additional support.
Download the free Sensory Tools for Student Disregulation & Distress Guide here to keep these strategies close at hand.
